In His Own Words
About Him
I want to have some fun with like minded people but uniquely different by the good things they have to offer me and other people
About His Ideal Match
She should be open-minded in all situations, understanding rather than dramatic, a caring, sharing, patient and respectful person who is content in the midst of situations. She must love nature, be a sport fanatic, active, risk taker, independent, not demanding but deserving, romantic and should love life in general!
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
City Bowl (Langa), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
37 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Mixed | |
Home Language: |
Zulu | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English; Portuguese; Sesotho; Swati; Tswana; Xhosa; Other | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
It's Complicated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Ask me later | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Western Cape; Eastern Cape; KwaZulu-Natal; Mpumalanga; Gauteng; North-West; Northern Cape; Free State, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
20 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Aries; Taurus; Cancer; Leo; Virgo; Libra; Scorpio; Sagittarius; Capricorn; Pisces | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 190cm (6' 2.8") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Black; Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Black/African; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Kosher; Halaal | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Student; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Agriculture; Political | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Long; Wild; It has its moods; It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I have a moustache |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An exhibitionist |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Moody; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Muzak; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Motoring; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Sport; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Business news; Card games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Sculpting; Shopping; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; American Football; Archery; Athletics; Badminton; Baseball; Basketball; Birdwatching; Bodyboarding; Bowling; Boxing; Bungee jumping; Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Cricket; Cycling; Dancesport; Darts; Extreme sports; Fencing; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Golf; Gymnastics; Handball; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Hunting; Ice Hockey; Ice Skating; Inline / Roller skating; Kitesurfing; Martial arts; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Polo; Pool; Rock climbing; Rowing; Rugby; Running; Sailing; Scuba diving; Shooting; Skateboarding; Skiing; Sky diving; Snooker; Snorkeling; Snowboarding; Soccer; Softball; Squash; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Surf skiing/kayaking; Surfing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Triathlon; Volleyball; Walking; Water Polo; Water skiing; White water rafting; Windsurfing; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Thunda Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Very |